My Many Lovely Friends :)


img_20170510_085134.jpgReally lovely and great day for I agree to clean up and arrange all the clothes. It is certainly needed these days and I think it is fun. Got the kitchen floor cleaned the other day so now it is just to continue. I take it as I have time and it is quite depending on how much as I can every day. But I like to have a good routine on the days no matter what it is. A routine that is tailor-made for me takes less energy and then I can do more. That is why I am careful to distribute my energy right, because it is much more limited than what a lot of people understand.

You look almost only to me when I have been drinking coffee and judge me accordingly. Many of you know also how I function when the coffee does not help or when the effect disappears after a couple of hours in the day and I become extremely tired. But it doesn’t stop me from balancing on to do the most I can do. Sometimes I wonder if it is worth all of the time and keep that balance as I do with my energy. But I want to give all that I can and for me so it gets to live a little half do not squeeze out what goes of me.

Sometimes it becomes very good and it is about all the time to rest and stay up so that I keep good balance of everything. Right now, it is a lot for me but in a good way and in a good balance that is sustainable in the long run. The longer the time that I get things to work without having to stop my gears, the stronger becomes the whole of this ship. It is tough to live as I do, but it is at the same time liberating, and nothing is anything without the other.
Think about working out all these abilities that I have. I take the slow but sure even further forward in my quest against all of my future goals. It is gratifying that all the time to be so stubborn even when I encounter various adversities of life. It is gratifying that all the time I can collect myself after all the times that I shattered. Piece by piece I build myself all the time, stronger and I find all the time new ways to manage everyday Life.

 I know where I have put the time and effort. Spiritually and with compassion and love. But sometimes, when I need to think more on myself so I notice the people who accept my choice. I notice who stays and who pulls away. For me, there’s nothing in it for I know where I’m going and it is not possible to get caught up in other people’s decisions, but it is that I need to make my own decisions based on each situation that may arise. In some cases it has gone so far that I don’t even bother me anymore. It also appears other people who are better than me. I have known this for so long now that I draws me away from all these people to do. I need to take care of my energy. It takes extra hard when there are people like me in spite of all the people I know anyway, been me the closest. Then turns this faster than the wind but it is not I who made that decision. This just makes me stronger in myself and I respect other people choices. It would be absolutely crazy not to respect the choice of others. I accept other people choices. I also have the power to do what is best for me, and after a long period of that I have been thinking that I have made my decision on very well. One of them is obvious 😛 

 It feels so funny for I really have so many lovely friends and we have so much and many plans in the pipeline for It is all between the regular trips that are planned for the full and it is also a bit of business travel. I am really so happy of all my inspiring friends that you mean more than diamonds for me. I am very excited for everything we will do together now in the future. The funny thing is that I wonder how and what I should plan first. It will in all cases be an overseas trip with my son and with some other friends of mine who also has children. Because I and my son will travel with others who like to plan in good time in the future that I need to sit down and start planning all the fun haha 🙂 .  It feels great fun is everything and it is good to have things to look forward to while I’m doing other things hihi 😛 

Everything will be carefully planned and I have my work now in the summer. One thing at a time is a good idea to Think 🙂 
Take Care Of Each Other
 Many Hugs from MinikeGirl 😛 
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Summer begins when it is Midsummer :)

In Sweden we celebrate midsummer. I have chosen to celebrate the very quiet, which is usually my choice at the holidays. But I feel the best of it and is quite happy to have it quiet. Today I have slept a bit longer in the morning which is really lovely. For me, it feels like summer begins when it is midsummer, and not at all that half the summer has been. My son is on the adventure and have big fun. So this weekend I am free.
Wish you all a HAPPY MIDSUMMER 😛
I have started to work on my summer work now, where I usually work in the summer, but where I also stand as a stand in person. It feels really inspiring and good. I love it and think it is a very rewarding job to work with people.
Big fun that so many of you listen and follow me on Spotify. I am so grateful and glad that you hang out with me on my music journey. Here are my 12 songs and I have more on the way :

Take Care Of Each Other

Many Hugs From MinikeGirl img_20170510_085134.jpg 😛








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Development Of This Technique


Especially good day my son and I had today this Saturday. A real mother and son day, it has really been. We often have a lot to talk about and we usually have deep conversations about life. We went to walk and was in a cosy restaurant. The day was also about to get my phone repaired so that I can give my son his first cellphone soon. Many think that it is far too early for a guy in my son’s age to get a mobile. For me it’s about what the actual cell phone used in for the purpose. I’m thinking that there are so many good games/apps where I can learn different things. But it is the most that I’ll be able to call to him and that he can call me. Different families have different purposes and I also think it is great that he gets to hang out with in the development of this technique. 

My son has always been very good on mobiles and to download the game and make different folders. This is such that he will have the benefit of in the future. He helped me with my mobile force to sort and put apps in different folders. What I have learned about computers and mobiles when I was younger has helped me a lot now when I’m older. I know the basics and it is something that I can’t so I am a bit of a problem solver, so I can often find a solution to it which is basic.

Today we bought a new cover glass to my mobile. My mobile is starting to become worn and the glass was about to come off as it is glued. But I am happy with my mobile phone and intend to keep it for a while. Already know what the next mobile that I will get is so I keep myself updated. It is really nice to be able to work with my mobile phone now again I have had another is now temporarily when the mine has been in repair vacation. Important to have good patience there and make sure that the end result will be good 😛 
Should take the opportunity now to get to work a little bit now with the cell phone for this wonderful day that has been 😛
Take Care Of Each Other 
Many Hugs From MinikeGirl 😛 screenshot_2017-05-20-22-16-45.jpg
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Bought one of those Spinners to my Son

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It has been a lovely day and it has been very good things that have happened. A thing ordered other things that I needed to get organized. Bought one of those Spinners to my son who was really happy. 2017-06-14 20.05.10Haha 😛  it’s not just my son that thinks it is big fun. 

The idea today was that I would work with the computer, but since I arranged with a bunch of other things so it may be now. Because it is myself who decides how many hours I work with my things, so it is easy to adjust the time. But I like it when I have a good structure in it as I do for when I get more done. Now it was my mobile phone that needed to be fixed for the I work with on my own. Work with a mobile which I am not accustomed to take both time and effort so I decided to fix my mobile. It went really well as soon as everything is in order again 😛 Given that it is a new computer that I need so it was not planned, that the cell phone would break. But now I’ll correct everything and get properly with the backup on both my mobile and computer. It is a must that they should work.

Had a bit of a time constraint before, but now I feel it will go really well. This day corrected to much and it was my goal for the day. So I am so satisfied and happy as one can be. The days that it happens a lot, but to be this good is quite Amazing.
Take Care Of Each Other
Many Hugs From MinikeGirl 😛 17884630_1228102760646137_6313495232815833993_n



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I Knew I Was LOST but it was only a matter of time ;)


Now things happens exactly as I want it to be. Sometimes plans will not be as you expected but it does not mean that it is something bad. But you can turn something bad into something good. It is possible to make everything better if you are stubborn and surround yourself with the right people around you. It’s about to open your soul a little for those who you trust and who understands. To never give up and do not a thing so will other things but it comes to find them.

When you are growing up it is a lot of requirements that you should be able to do, a lot of things on various topics that you then make lot of tests for it if you can.. It is all the time a lot of assessments. I’d much rather learn that I am good enough as I am as a person. I had rather learned more about emotions and how I would deal with them.. I’d rather learn more about the different situations in life that occur and how to in a healthy way can handle them. I had rather learned more about me as a person. Who I was and how I acted. But it was all the time on the that I would learn to not be me.

I was forged to be like all the others, and I was easy to control when I didn’t know who I was. My life has been like many others but we are all different people. We experience situations in different ways. We all have different perspectives and tells of similar events, but not completely verbatim. Most important is how I will proceed in what I want. When I am focused it is not that I am disinterested in other people or that it shall appear that it is me, myself and I all of the time.

It’s about self-respect towards yourself, and it’s not about being egocentric and egoistic. It is about drawing clear boundaries both towards other people and towards yourself. So before you think that I am egoistic and egocentric so should look at yourself, think through how you are as a person. Instead of being jealous of me so take care of yourself instead. Do not come to me and whine because I don’t have time and it is about self-respect.

It is easier said than done and it is a long process to undergo at the same time as it is about that you get to remind themselves of how and how they want to live their lives. Everything became easier the day I learned to seek support and to hang out with people who would never accuse me of being egoistic and egocentric, that I live as I do and that it is good to think of yourself. Surround yourself with strong people who are strong in themselves and confident that I never will questioned because I take care of myself.


Hell Yeah when I started to ignore the other’s envy, so my life has become much better 😛
The fact is that many are so quick to judge when its not so good but many are not there then when it goes good. Then they should not have been there from the beginning. I thought so often when I was younger and felt and heard that ” she has the do not track ” …..
One day, I will show you everything that’s flown around and seen that I do not have control on ….
She starts lot of projects and she just talks all the time about a lot of things she should do. She sings bad and think that she is something!…….What will become of her?


I can tell you that already then it looks like I have an eye on something so I try for I want to and I’m stubborn. It takes me on. To complain about someone who ”sings bad ” is so ridiculous. I practice the for the hell

I knew from the beginning that I had no control of all of the projects that I started and I knew I was lost. I knew it would take time, but I knew that I could do it. When I show other people that I am a bastard of it as I do when I find the thread and when I find security in it as I am lost in so it will be more than good. It is not possible to be good at everything but you can try.

It is so frustrating to want so much but not having the ability to be able to do what you want. When other people are on and complains when you try so it will be not better. Therefore, I have set up rules to hang out with strong people .

Strong people lift you up and see you as a human being. They don’t have to like everything you do but they have so much stability in themselves that they do not need to supress you when you have your worse Days.


 What I mean and like with this post, is that you my readers will get a little food for thought regarding what which are your closest people. Also not to forget that you are the person who is closest to you.


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But don’t forget yourself……


Many Hugs From MinikeGirl 😛 
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Wonderful Parrot and Peaceful Weekend



It is a lovely and peaceful weekend with my son and with my most wonderful friends. We are like a big family and there is so much love that I am extremely grateful for. Also got a stronger bond to a new friend yesterday which feels awesome and it warms my soul so much. Imagine what wonderful parrots can be and also very stubborn. Hihi just like I am 😛 Will continue this Saturday with structuring up some stuff so it will be a little more order. It is easy to I write down my thoughts on paper to remember them but they will not help if they are not taken care of then. It is so that I get done what I want to get done.

 I have a new album cover to make for my next  song write lyrics and structure them up go to the studio and sing into one of my new upcoming songs

These points are only a small part of all that I have to work with in the future but I like to work with many things at the same time. It works great when I get to work alone and add up how I should use my time. It is then I make the best work and are at a good balanced enerigi level. Often get told by other people that I have good self-discipline and that I know exactly how I operate. I agree with what others say about me at the same time I think that I am constantly evolving in just to teach me further in how I work. How I think and feel there is a long history, so that we take another time. But I have trained and worked to be able to have the structure that I have today. I feel good to live as I do so structured but so liberating.

A thousand Thanks To All of You who Listen to my Music and follow me MinikeGirl here on my blog 😛 

Take Care Of Each Other 😀 


Many Hugs From MinikeGirl 😀

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Sing Along Just Do It :)

Well I’m not directly any shorts person, that you can see here in the picture. My arm has been in the sun but not my legs. Would be happy to have shorts when sometimes but bruised one of my legs the other day so I don’t want to have it wounded more in the sun now either. It has been a glorious weekend with a touch of everything.

Wonderful that it has been so hot and sunny the whole weekend. Many have been swimming this weekend. Here i’ve been grilling, with lots of delicious food and I have gone walking.

When I sit and work this much as I do with the computer and the internet, I learn very much about how the internet works. I can more and more effectively use the time to work with it as I want to do. I get all the time new ideas and thoughts on how I should further develop everything that I work with. It is so exciting but it is really a lot of work behind. I like that all the time to see different possibilities. The coolest thing is that I feel that I just is in the beginning to build up all. It will probably always be so for there is always something to do with my music and with my blog. It is liberating to be able to live in a real virtual world that’s true. It feels absolutely incredibly wonderful that I have found a platform where I can be and get out my creativity. This is one of the things that I’ve been looking for all my life. 

It is easier to accept that I can have little bit more difficult for some everyday things that most people have. When I stand and my brain can’t figure out something, witch for many other people is a simple mathematics speech so it does not feel hard anymore.

When I’m not stressed so I can do very much things and have many balls in the air. It’s all about having balance in everything which is a recurrent fact.
So when I stand and ask about the easiest stuff that you think is so simple, it might not easy for me when I ask. It may seem that I’m insecure but I know how I tick and I am sure that things will become right. So my science in how I work and my ambition in that I want things to be right can be perceived slightly different by other people.

It may be that it seems like I am taking a simple way through that question things that I Always ask about.

It may seem like I am insecure and do not dare to trust myself. It is just the opposite. I trust myself but I also know that if I get some help with the ”simplest ” little things so my balance will be more whole.

When it hangs and I get a little blocked and paralysed so I tend to accept that it is so. Other people may like to think that I’m not capable of ”simple stuff” as they always can. I know other things they can’t and I’m proud of it as I can. I am proud of what I do. The problem before was always that I felt that all the others could so much more than what I could. They could so much more.

When everyday life becomes a life where the only is to watch and do as all the others and it is precisely that which was difficult so taking it stops there for many people.
It become a vicious circle and many people feel terribly bad about to feel that : Why can and understand all of the others here but not me ?
But I can sing well don’t go around and sing and say to other people listen and mimic me : It is just to listen and sing along.
As hard as many of you would have to ex sing as I can.
I have with many of the everyday stuff that you think is so easy that you not even consider that it ex /
  • simple mental arithmetic
  • go and shop
  • have the energy for a whole day
  • able to do all of these small everyday stuff which takes a lot of energy if it is not planned well

It is really good for the people who can cope and actually thrive with the living on their way. I was forced in a way to live as I live today, but now I enjoy it. I accept how it is. Just keep in mind that we are all different and we can different things. I don’t sit with my hands in the cross and never want to learn anything new, but I’m trying and interested in learning new things. But I also know my limitations. Instead of not having tried, so I always want to try and give most things a chance.

My strengths works best when I get some time to sort new impressions and routines. I would like to work more enhanced in the everyday lives of ordinary people in the future. I have so many everyday tricks, and I am very good at structuring up and see what works together and not. This not is not of importance always. It is a part. I will come back more with this subject in the future. I’m a kind of template regarding this and I need somehow to develop my thinking and come up with something, a good way to be able to teach it in practice to other people.

Many Hugs From MinikeGirl 😛 


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Gorgeous Flower


Gorgeous Flower, which struck out in its beautiful color. I’m no flower expert so I thought it would take one more day before it would be so beautiful.

After a lovely and wonderful weekend as I continue with it as I usually do. I think it’s so amazing that blogging here, and at the same time be able to live in my dream regarding creating music.

Feel that there soon will be a period where I will write many new songs. Maybe write 10 new tonight or tomorrow already, who knows hihi   😛 
Have 12 of my own songs out on Spotify right now and it feels absolutely incredible and I am so grateful for all the nice feedback that I get all the time of all of you who listen to my music. Many think that I have a lot of good songs that they can relate to. Many think I’m a good singer/songwriter and the most important thing is that I love to write and sing.
A thousand Thanks to you all who read my blog and listen to my music. You are the best in the World and I love you all so much 😛 

 Take Care of each other

Many Hugs From MinikeGirl 😛 

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Sushi Weekend with Strawberries

screenshot_2017-05-20-22-17-57.jpgIt has been a lovely weekend with a lot of events and also a amount of peace and quiet.

I’ve recorded my next song in the studio, which feels absolutely wonderful.

We have planted the flowers and it has been a lot of football.

Yesterday we went to a restaurant and bought us food home. Was really cozy last night when I ate Sushi which is so good 😛 

Sat a long time, ate and talked. My son can eat with sticks so it is something that we both think is fun to eat with. 


So now this Sunday, there will be a quiet night for tomorrow has my son in his school again.


Take Care Of Each Other

Many Hugs From MinikeGirl ????

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Business And Emotions


Now I have the people around me that I want now for the future and I am happy that all these fine people are. Key people have been added, closer to me, and others have chosen to by a variety of reasons to shirk. Feels really good for me now in all cases be surrounded with people who have a strong inner drive. We think pretty much the same and the differences benefit us all. I choose carefully the people that I currently surround myself with.

It can be extremely tough to select out people so it makes thing easier when one chooses to remove themselves. It is not possible to get stuck in to think about these people. I will always think about many people but everyone should not be with in that which I create.

The journey is mine with a few chosen to be with. I know how I want everything to go to. We all have our own journeys and sometimes so are the roads in different directions.

I am glad that it still shows itself now early I learn a lot of everything. It is not possible to add together the friendship and success if you can’t operate it on a healthy level. It wears on relationships and some decreases slowly with time. May be because I as a person is very driven in what I do and need to surround myself with like minded people. Why is my Webmaster the person who is most involved in how I think and what I do. I also have some friends who have the same drive as I right now and we are both to be seen and talk a lot in the cell phone. It feels good to be able to share thoughts and concerns on a daily basis with these wonderful people. No need to feel envy because it goes well for the other and not thinking is strange. That is the way I want it. When you get it where sms : Heeej good luck on the job when working at home.

Imagine what a text can do. You can’t always call when you sit and work with everything. So then it’s fun to be able to send some text messages to their friends closest 😛

Sending sms takes not so long time it is about a few seconds so it has time if you want 😛

In order to preserve some relationships, so share I do not these people everything that touches my business thoughts no  longer. It is for relationships, and not to shut out other people. There is much to it that I work with should not be destroyed for I need all the energy I can use. Important to be able to make those decisions and it has not been easy either. But now I do it because it creates less turbulence. Instead of speculating, and it takes my energy, so my reflections over all of that I make the decisions I do. I am happy and it feels good. A thousand thanks to you people that in one way or another helped me by showing where you stand. How evil it may have done so, you have helped me to be able to be responsible for it will be as good as possible. This has given me more than what I have lost. It has taught me to better manage and distinguish between business and emotions.



It was my fault from the beginning who wanted to be with friends in my business. For me it was so obvious, but after realizing that it only damaged relationships so I had to do something. So now I have my Webmaster, and a few other close friends who I talk most with when it comes to my business. It will be best for all and none is less worthy than any other.

My inner plans, it is no besides I know about, and so it will remain. As my Webmaster likes to say : You do as you want in the end anyway HAHA 😛

I respect everyone’s choice in how involved or not as it chosen to be. But it is I who govern, and it is I who make and makes all the final decisions.

The biggest decisions are now made regarding some adjustments in the construction.

Feels really wonderful 😀

Take Care Of Each Other

Many Hugs From MinikeGirl 😀

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